There is an oft-asked question by the theist: how do atheists deal with death? The answer is that we bravely acknowledge that death is just as much a part of life as living. We gratefully remember our loved ones and work to be the type of person they would be proud of in life, and even prouder of in the fullness of our lives. We hug our loved ones that remain and let those who have passed live on in our actions and conscience so that their lasting influence can continue to improve us.
And we cry.
I found this passage while searching for support groups and grief counseling for atheists. It's hard to come by. Most people turn to God and prayer for support during a crisis, but an atheist stands on their own two feet while life kicks the shit out them. I have to admit, this whole thing would be so much easier if I believed in the great big malt shop in the sky. If I could truly believe that everyone we love is waiting in some fluffy white paradise it might be easier to lose the best person in my world. But I don't and I can't.
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